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11.6.09

SIGNS OF BAD NANNY @ BABY SITTER

Kepada IBU @ MaMa yang bekerja, di sini MaMaQayPo ingin berkongsi info yg agak berguna untuk rujukan kita semua.

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It's not always easy to know whether your child's caregiver is doing the job she's supposed to. To find out, you may have to do some sleuthing. Some parents who suspect something may be amiss rent nanny surveillance equipment. But it's often possible to tell whether something's wrong without going to that extreme.

You may have trouble on your hands if:

Your toddler isn't happy to see the nanny or babysitter and has become anxious and withdrawn. A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a child needs to trust and love his nanny or babysitter completely. Perhaps your toddler and caregiver haven't bonded, or the nanny or babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth and comfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having the right chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious is wrong, educate yourself about the signs of child abuse.)

Your nanny or babysitter seems secretive about the daily routine. How your toddler and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret . When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child and what happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcoming about it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she has something to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should be able to convey the ups and downs of your toddler's day, and will understand why you want to know.

Your child has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents. A nanny must keep her eye on your child, and know what he's doing at all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your child unattended as he sleeps or plays.

You notice your requests aren't followed. Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregiver shouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than you do. "I didn't like my babies to be fed on schedule and I told my nanny so," says Kirsi Tikka, a professor from Port Washington, New York. "But she insisted on it." Eventually, Tikka and that particular nanny parted ways.

She seems critical of they way you're raising your child. Again, you're supposed to be a team. And you should welcome constructive suggestions from your child's caregiver — especially if she spends a lot of time with your ever-changing toddler. But if you get the sense that the two of you just aren't on the same page when it comes to basics like food, sleep, and safety, the relationship might not work out in the long run.

Your nanny or babysitter often shows up late. An undependable caregiver will leave you in a lurch time and time again. Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate of your needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she's unreliable in other ways as well.

Your toddler often looks unkempt and dirty. If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may be a sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child's needs.

Her stories don't add up. Never tolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You have to be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work.

SUMBER dari: www.babycenter.com

12 ulasan:

MariaFaizal berkata...

So far Alhamdulillah belum ada any of those signs pada babysitter my children. Syukur but Thanks MaMa for sharing this. Absolutely useful!

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

Maria:

Bagus lah kalau camtu.. bukan senang kan nak dpt yg ikhlas jaga anak kita..

MaMa juga akan hantar Achu Fizie pada BabySitter (Charge daily) kalau Along ada events.. so, info ni mmg agak berguna utk rujukan..

Wan Anis Sorfina berkata...

• Your toddler isn't happy to see the nanny or babysitter and has become anxious and withdrawn.

-> My toddler doesn't happy to see me! Mengamuk tak mau balik,hari2 berperang nak letak dlm carseat tuh! haiiiih~

• Your nanny or babysitter seems secretive about the daily routine.
-->lps balik kerja, 4.30 amik bby, pukul 5 baru balik sbb bersembang pasal apa dia buat harini & 'berperang' ~

• Your child has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents.
-> stakat nie baru skali, jatuh longkang, lebam jugak lah batang hidung tu.. itupun bukan sbb pengasuh, tp bby sendiri yg 'buas'.. Malam tu pengasuh tak dapat tido sbb rasa bersalah.. dah berkali3 mtk maap!

• You notice your requests aren't followed.
-> Alhamdulillah, stakat ni suma jalan je!

• She seems critical of they way you're raising your child.
-> Alhamdulillah tak pernah, dia yang lebih byk nasihat bg nasihat sbb dia berpengalaman

• Your nanny or babysitter often shows up late.
-> Antar awal, amik lewat adalah. itupun pengasuh tak pernah merungut. Alhamdulillah..

• Your toddler often looks unkempt and dirty.
-> Alhamdulillah, selalu nak pergi amik tu, bby dah siap mandi & makan ~kekadang tu bedak memutihhh je kat muka

• Her stories don't add up.
-> Alhamdulillah, stakat ni tak pernah..


Thanks Mama sharing the info!

Syukur sngt dpt pengasuh mcm Mak Lang tu, bukan senang nak cari pengasuh yang jaga anak kita mcm tatang minyak yang penuh...

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

Wan Anis Sofina:

Siap buat huraian lagi... Dasat!!

Tapi mmg bertuah Wan dpt babysitter yg betul2 JAGA your baby... yg treat anak Wan cam anak dia sendiri, sampai tak nak MaMa dia pegi ambik balik... hahahahaha

:P

Wan Anis Sorfina berkata...

wan baca list mama betul2 tu tau haa.. nk tgk kriteria bby sitter~
bby wan tu cenggitu lah.. kdg2 hilang sbr jugak! dulu wan tensen sgt sbb bby tak mau balik.. skrg ok la sket sbb nk kena pujuk @psycho pelan2 wpun kekadang tu amik ms yg sgt pnjg!..

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

Wan:

Tapi mmg betuah Wan dpt BabySitter cam Mk Lang tu... Tahniah!!

CuTeMiUt78 berkata...

eemmm good info ni.. setakat ni alhamdulilah la takde la apa2 yg berlaku kat Mirul bila dijaga baby sisternya..

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

CuteMiut:

Alhamdulillah kalau camtu..

Zmn skrg mcm2 leh jadi, kena selalu alert jer...

Dee berkata...

alhamdulillah..babysitter dee ok je..baik sesangat..jaga dua2 anak dee..ajar ngaji, solat, doa..org tua..susah nk amik cuti..dh mcm mak sendiri...

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

Bertuah anak2 Dee.. Bukan sng nak jumpa tu... Hope Dee & anak2 selalu lah jaga hati auntie tu.. treat dia cam famili sendiri...

kakyong berkata...

mama,
so far masa kakyong kerja dulu, my baby sitter okay jer.. tp bila dah anak 3, dia pun beranak kecik lagi.. so takkan nak bg dia jaga 3-3 anak2 ku kan...

tu lah antara reason dok rumah sepenuh masa... susah nak cari bbsitter yg betui2 jaga anak kita mcm anak dia...

MaMaQaYPo FaMiLy berkata...

sokong Kak Yong:

Mmg susah nak cari org yg leh jaga anak kita cam anak dia sendiri..

MaMa pun jadi surirumah sepenuh masa pun sbb tu juga..

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